Rinse the yellow split pigeon peas in a couple of changes of water. Remove any stones or off color peas.
In a large soup pot, add the pigeon peas, tomato, coconut, turmeric, cumin and Silk Coconut Milk. Bring to a low simmer, cover and let cook for 30 minutes.
Remove the lid, add the Butternut Squash Bisque and simmer uncovered for an additional 30 minutes.
In a small sauté pan, add the oil over medium high heat. Heat until the oil is almost smoking, add the mustard seeds and cover with a lid, they will pop.
Once the popping has died down, add the red pepper flakes and cook for an additional 30 seconds.
Add the garlic and salt and cook for another 30 seconds.
Pour into soup pot and stir to combine.
Finish the stew with honey, lime juice, parsley (or cilantro.)